22 November 2016

Dave Grolle - from the RLG years


Grolle contributed to the best of RLG...RLG's heart. He was a big, upbeat, generous guy who engaged with everyone in an open, down to earth way.  We all cherish our memories of interacting with Dave, and mine are very funny and sweet. I remember an articulated wooden rabbit (like the image above), that we "dressed" in seasonally appropriate fabric ears...a gift from Grolle. RIP Dave.

David Frank Grolle

January 12, 1952 - November 5, 2016
http://www.spanglermortuary.com/obituaries/David-Grolle/#!/Obituary

Obituary for David Frank Grolle

Dave Grolle passed away quietly at the age of 64, finally succumbing to the progression of Parkinson's Disease which he had battled for over 15 years. The oldest of four sons, Dave was born in Ann Arbor, Michigan to parents Floyd and Barbara (Schumm) Grolle. His family relocated several times during his childhood, taking them to Kalamazoo, Michigan, New Jersey, Illinois, and finally to Los Altos in December, 1970.

In 1970, Dave graduated from Glenbrook South High School in Glenview, Illinois. He attended Northern Illinois University before moving with his family to California and transferring to Foothill College. He later graduated from San Jose State with a BA degree in Business. He worked in sales for many years for JC Penny, and later spent many years working at Stanford Medical Center in the Research Library Group, supporting and maintaining their computer system.

While Dave never married, his life was filled spending time with his many family members and interests. He was an avid golfer, frequently combining visits to see relatives with his passion for the game. He was a big fan of Stanford sports as well as the 49ers, attending decades of games at Candlestick and two Super Bowls. He had a lifelong interest in automobiles, and spent much of his time renovating classic cars. But Dave's hobbies always were put aside to provide volunteer help with a church project, or to be present at an extended family member's life event celebration, sporting event or recital. Dave traveled extensively in his "favorite Uncle" capacity and was often the only representative of the "California Grolles" at various Grolle or Schumm cousin events in Hawaii, Washington, Colorado and Ohio.

Dave is survived by his three younger brothers, Ken (Jay) of Mountain View, Tim (Lucy) of Sunnyvale, Fred (Margaret) of Sonora; five nieces (Erin, Dana, April, Lenore and Lizzie); three nephews (Matthew, Michael and Steven) and his "California" cousin Craig Anderson (Teri) along with their extended families. Dave was a member of St. Paul Lutheran Church in Mountain View since 1970, serving the congregation in a number of capacities and being a strong supporter of its Child Development Center. A memorial service and reception in his honor will be held there on Saturday morning, December 3rd at 11:00 AM, 1075 El Monte Avenue in Mountain View.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Child Development Center, St. Paul Lutheran Church, 1075 El Monte Ave, Mountain View, CA 94040, or The Parkinson's Institute, 675 Almanor Ave, Sunnyvale, CA 94085.






19 September 2016

Politics...make me sick...

http://cqrollcall.com/statetrackers/graphic-different-priorities-in-red-and-blue-states/

Morning news - I gotta drop you again. I stopped watching the AM news 15 years ago after seeing the 9/11 plane crashing into the World Trade Center towers. Recently, I started watching HLN morning news but that is over now. First top news story highlighted every day...started with ___. Switched to the LA version because I hoped they would be less biased. Today I drop them too...after this tease "One week to go before the first debate between ___, and his opponent...." (fill in the blanks; I know you know) 

WTF media jerks..you have squashed my morning mellow for the last time. Might as well drink week-old decaf with soured milk, if I want my soul crushed before I get in my morning swim. So sick of throwing up a little in my mouth every morning. Thinking I should head south before that wall gets built. Or float north into the open arms of our other neighbor...before they make us pay for the wall they are planning to build starting November 5th. 


Yes I know we are slowing dying everyday since the day we were born, but it feels like I am being pushed along faster and faster. That light at the end of the tunnel is looking more like hell-fire...coming at me instead of waiting for me to come to it. Not what I expected and hoped for in my golden years.

04 September 2016

Thrust into pre-retirement: so this is how it ends...and how it begins

Goodby OCLC and the commute to San Mateo: A very well groomed VP who I had never met before  burst into my stuffy, cluttered office and dragged me and my colleague into a conference room I had never been in before...to sit and listen to a rep from HR on a conference call from Dublin OH, break the news that we (4 of us considered "remote" staff) were being laid off. That was Friday, the last working day of April 2016.  Then we gathered some of our personal crap and gave up all access to accounts and machines related to our employment, and we were walked out the door.  Early release...what fun!

We had 3 working days to decide what we wanted to do with the options that were presented in the paperwork.  So I chose termination with severance, beginning on May 3, 2016.  I could have packed up my family and moved to Dublin OH to keep my job for another 11 months, but I decided not to do that.

There was a ton of financial impacts resulting from that decision, but I have negotiated my way through some of the big ones.  I managed to close the refi I had started a few weeks before this change in my employment status.  That was a quite a trick.

My old Pontiac needed parts that were no longer available, so I needed a newer car.  I shopped long and hard and decided on a Honda CR-V.  I found one I liked and bought it with cash from the equity in my townhouse. I basically rolled the car payments into my new mortgage since the interest rates are so low on mortgages now, on advice from my financial advisor.

It is good to have a financial advisor who is on your side but not trying to sell you new investments or make their fortune off your business.

Now, as the severance period is winding down, I have a few more weeks of unemployment income and then no income from November to April.  April marks my 65 birthday and I plan to file for Social Security and Medicare and probably annuitize some part of my retirement savings to complement SS and provide a basic budget that I can live on. Again, on advice from my financial advisor.

I moved about 75% of my investments into very conservative positions, leaving just a few in more aggressive funds, that may provide some additional growth.  One of the big hits this abrupt pre-retirement move caused...I cannot invest any more funds into the 401-K or 403-B contracts.

I had planned to pump a good 20% of my income into my retirement savings this year.  Oh well. Again, my financial advisor has been a crucial driver for the decisions I have had to make.  I cannot make stupid financial moves anymore, as I confess I have done in the past. Now I have to make sure I can take good care of myself and enjoy the last years of my life...with some money left over to leave to my daughter.

So here I am. I have a great used car and a new 7 year mortgage. I am ready to start the joy, joy!

06 May 2016

Happy Mother's Day

Happy Mothers Day!

This little lady is my mom. She was one tough cookie. She put up with a ton of crap from eight of us kids and my dad. She taught me to sew and knit and crochet. She let me keep a little black kitten that my friend's mom dropped off at our house...because I had told her my mom said it was OK...that was when I learned not to ask. Consequences always work out somehow.

She used to lock us out of the house so she could mop the floor...so it would be clean for a couple minutes.  She was determined to learn to drive and finally, she did!  She had her own car and she deserved every moment of freedom that afforded her.

She loved yellow roses and I sent huge bouquets for birthdays and mother's day.  I did not spend enough time with her, so I have to cherish what I remember, and celebrate her sweetness and her strength.

04 April 2016

64 and there is so much more...

Small, delicate, desert 5 spot and friend. 
Seriously? I stopped writing in 2009? Like talking on the phone, I stopped doing it for pleasure because I'm chained to a desk 5 days a week, talking and writing, acting friendly, interested, and like I always know the answer to the question or problem...right?

Some of my friends have slipped away because I never answer my phone.  Maybe that is not the only reason, but it certainly has contributed. Can I start writing again?  I want to start writing again. Each little post is not a polished gem, but so what?

The one thing that was at the top of my list for today, get my next refi going, did not make any progress.  I called "Chad"  but Chad did not call me back, although I waited until 2 PM.  Figured that was long enough seeing that they are based in New York.

While waiting I cleaned the upstairs bathroom...cleaned it a little bit too good.  The drain cleaner leaked through the drain and soaked the ceiling below and so much for that.  Looks like that repair will not wait until I get ready to stage the house to sell it.